Let’s continue the conversation about cultivating self-love.
If you missed my first blog about self-love you can connect with it here, however, please continue reading and jump back to it if you wish. You don’t need to have that information first!
IT IS ELUSIVE
The mere idea of self-love has been elusive for most of us. Have you ever heard others say lovely things such as “you just need to love yourself” or “if you loved yourself more you would…(fill in the blank) or “no one can love you if you don’t love yourself first, so just do that!”
While all of these statements and more (I am sure you can come up with your own version of these) may be true from a vibrational point of view, the problem is that most of us have no idea how to really and truly create an experience of sustained love or care for ourselves. We have not been given the tools to be with ourselves in a field of love.
As passionate world-wide Akashic Records Instructor and consultant I have had this come up so many times in working with others. AND, it has come up a lot for me in my own work in the records.
If you love working in your own records and you really desire to create a sustained field of unconditional self-love as a springboard for all types of love in your life, read on….
USE THIS IN YOUR AKASHIC RECORDS PRACTICE
Here are some tips for you that can elevate your practice and your embodiment of Self-Love. There are many ways to access the Akashic Records. What I am sharing here can be done no matter what method you use to enter the timeless dimension of your Soul-Level Truth.
Open your Akashic Records and settle into your sacred space. Connect with your Team there. I call them your Masters, Teachers & Loved Ones (M,T,LO’s). You may call them something else. That does not matter. What does matter is that you drop in and connect, feel, and allow your Truth to flow to you.
You may have something on your mind that you wish to explore in your records, or you may simply wish to discover more about love in there.
No matter what, begin by sharing with your Masters, Teachers & Loved Ones what is on your mind. Tell your story. Share all of it: how you feel, what feels confusing, what is a curiosity, what hurts…explain it all from your human perspective.
If you are there to get a better understanding of love in your life, and in your experiences, share that with your Team. They are good listeners and they understand you better than anyone else! Literally. They are always there. You can count on them and they will always have enough time, patience, compassion, understanding and wisdom for you.
While you are in the middle of this step you may find that you have new realizations pop in. You may discover new wisdom that was not there before. Allow for anything to shift and change even in this step! It can happen!
Now that you have done those two steps, let’s get to the good part of really leaning into more Self-Love than ever beforeET
Do one or both of these as you feel drawn to when in your Akashic Records:
- Be on Your Side: As you are sharing your experiences or telling your story begin to consider Being on Your Side.Here’s what this means: No matter what the issue or concern is, haven’t you always been doing your best? You may not have liked the outcome. Others may have judged you. You may “know better” now, but at that time you did not know another way. Overall, hasn’t it always been the best you could do in the moment?If you can connect with this, then please quietly tell yourself this while you are in your records. Here’s an example, if it were me in my records and I wanted to Be on My Side I would say to myself “Holly, you are doing your best. If you could have done it differently, you would have. You may even “know better” now, but back when this happened you did not know. In fact, you have always been doing your best and you always do that.”Some of you will feel relief in this simple exercise. You will feel your shoulders relax and you may even feel your breath deepen. Getting this affirmation, especially while in your Akashic Records, allows you to get closer to yourself. It allows you to release judgment you hold against yourself, which is a direct block to experiencing Self-Love.
Even if you are not consciously feeling relief in the moment, the energetic shift will still be there. You may notice it later.
Take a moment, in silence, to soak in the feeling of Being on Your Side.
Being on Your Side is a clear act of Self-Love. Do this often, both in your records and out of your records, in your everyday life.
- Fully Being with You: Okay, for me, THIS. IS. SO. POWERFUL! I know I said up above to choose one or all of these, but please don’t miss this one. It is too, too good!Whether or not you did #1, Be on Your Side, here is another powerful experience you can do that automatically up-levels the care and love you feel for yourself.No matter what you brought to your records for understanding, healing or “next level” experience here is what to do:
- [I like to put my hands on my heart or one hand on my heart area and one on my solar plexus area (around the navel)]
- As you consider what you have been sharing with your M,T, LO’s, say to yourself “I am with you now, (say your name). I am so sorry I was not there for you. I am with you and will never leave you again. I love you. We are in this together. We are in this together, fully, from this moment forward.”
- If there are any other loving messages you can extend to yourself at this moment that is related to always being there for you, of course, feel free to share those sentiments now.
As you did in #1, take some time to be with you, in silence. Feel the shift from being fully there for yourself and committing to unconditionally being with all parts of you eternally. We truly crave this unconditional experience. We feel loved, cared about, and understood.
In this experience you are reconnecting with parts of you that you may have abandoned through challenging experiences in your life. You are creating a more holistic connection with all of you and it feels good! You will feel deeply cared about…by you!
This is you loving you. This is Self-Love.
You can do this in your Akashic Records (super powerful) and you can do this in your everyday life anytime you feel upset, activated, need to make a decision or…whenever!
MOST POWERFUL & TRANSFORMATIONAL
Generating an energetic field of Self-Love is one of the most powerful and transformational acts you can do for yourself. You, as the center point of love in your life, creates a magnetic draw to you of “all things love”. This means ALL! It goes beyond lovers or partners. The field of love you generate for yourself first magnetizes ALL LOVE to you in your field of life and experience: your boss, your co-workers, your family, your friends, the people you are standing next to as you order your coffee or tea… all of it.
LIFE WILL RESPOND TO YOU
As you work with the energy of loving yourself unconditionally, especially in your records, you begin to transmit that love energy out into the world around you. Life will respond because you have found yourself worthy of loving. You have discovered love for yourself, within yourself. You have lovingly shown up for you. Once you find it for yourself, the world around you can, and will, respond.
Together, let’s embark on a Journey into Love…Self-Love!
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Holly Hawkins Marwood is an International Akashic Records Instructor and Reader who is passionate about sharing the gifts and benefits of the Akashic Records with the world. She believes that everyone should know how to use this incomparable resource to help them manifest the life of their dreams. You can read more about the classes she teaches and the sessions that she and her husband, Paul Marwood, offer through their business, Soul Genesis. They work internationally and locally and offer sessions at a distance as well as in person.
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